Monday, October 20, 2008

Love at first sight

One of the girls, S, asked me if I believe in love at first t sight…


Love at first sight, I was impressed by it when I was in high school. I mean the Tamil movies I saw, showed that love happens at first sight. The guy (hero) will see the girl (some voluptuous looking actress) for the first time. Out of no where love will blossom and you know the rest of the story. For your information, the usual dance around the trees will be after this actually. I used to dream bout it; I mean being a hero and waiting for that one moment to actually happen. Nowadays I just laugh about it. I got to say that I have been too naive in the past.

As for now, I think love at first sight would be great in an ideal world. But this is not an ideal world. What do you girls have to say bout this?? I am sure Sri Amanians will have lot to say about this. I am interested to know your opinions. I asked older women (unmarried women ageing from 24 -26) and surprised to find that they don’t believe in love at first sight. What bout others? Have anything to say?

7 comments:

RueShan said...

hmm....simply posted this to excite the SA girls is it? *shakes head* love at first sight eh? kind of weird when you simply fall in love with someone without actually knowing the person much, except for his/her appearance..... but then again, the world works in mysterious ways....you never know.....


by the way, tamil movies???omg.....

Trishomachine. said...

I fall into that 'older women' category (I prefer the terms 'mature' but oh well) and I must say that OF COURSE love at first sight exists.......................... in high school. And it pretty much stays there too. Haha.

Love at first sight does not exist because what happens at first sight is actually mere attraction. To love someone is to accept him/her full package, flaws and all. At first sight, what flaws might you see besides the physical?

Let's not kid ourselves. We have crushes at first sight, even lust at first sight...but love at first sight? I think not =)

Jarod Yong said...

I think like at first sight exists...
Love, on the other hand, will take more time & care~~

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Anonymous said...

Does lee hom count? Haha!!!
Anyway.. love at first sight may happen in high school ;) (you know who i mean). i guess it is because when we were younger, we did not have much exposure on the real world and demands from us. WE taught that everything will fall at the right places like in movies and TVB dramas. well that is because someone is writing the script and that person is called a scriptwriter who os paid to write.. BUT who is writing our script?? Our real life script???
So maybe there is, maybe there isn't. Besides, its not love at first sight. I think, in my humble opinion, it's attraction at first sight, evaluation of love after.. err.. many sights.. Hahahah..

nitzie said...

hey... i'm exSA student.... for ur Q...

love at first sight do not exist!!!
i believe that like at first sight exists but not love.. i mean what do u love about a person u just met, a person that u know absolutely nothing about...

love can only be used when you've seen the other person at his@her worst, at the lowest and highest points in their life...

the word love itself is misused!!! it's sad~~ :p

ps: are there finally more than 3 male teachers in the school??? i wonder if we still bully the male teachers??? :p

Najib Azmi said...

you could probably have a crush by just looking at someone, but I don't think 'love' is the right term.